Sunday, November 15, 2009

some thoughts...

this year of the ox, there are some major events.

- decided to get a car (and get some rather big financial burden in the process)
- graduated from school

many of my colleagues, ex and current wondered how these 2 can be possible, especially when the car came before graduation. This is a problem that is slowly manifesting itself. It constricts my personal development, because i'm not so willing to switch to a perhaps more rewarding career yet pays less. Due to the current job, i don't have quality time to spend with my loved ones, let alone going for language and career related courses to increase my value.

there's much money if i claim over time and mileage, but somehow this path don't seem to be a wise one.

maybe i'm a thinker, i think forward and imagine consequences. Yet i made the above decision without much thinking...

there must be some sacrifices made...it seems. Some advise from people who walked this path or not is appreciated.

2 comments:

Homely Guy said...

seems like you are at a crossroad ... same one that i have been at before ...

ask yourself if u like what you are doing now, can you see yourself doing the same thing 5 yrs, 10 yrs down the road?

if not, then the choice is clear ...

you decide lor while now still can ... next time when marry, got family liao, then harder lor, not say cannot lah ... but have to consider lots more

my 2 cents worth ... hehee

Cross Road Pedestrian said...

its never an easy choice.. to give up the safe zone and step out to the wild..