Thursday, March 31, 2011

when love is no longer present...

recently heard that a long time friend of mine parted ways with another friend of mine. Although we are all so mature and close to an age band where such things would be quite unimaginable, it actually happened. The only possible consolation - they aren't married nor they had any shared assets.

i won't know the reason behind, but definitely there must be some great underlying motivation and courage to sever a bond that was in place for years.

i can only hope it was not any temptation involved. I always feel that at the end of the day, differentiate between someone who really loves the other and a 3rd party who temporarily distracted a relationship.

5-10 years ago, we can get together easily, sit down and discuss. That was what i did and many of my friends really gave good advice. But now at our age, it seemed really awkward to talk about it, since each of us would appreciate some privacy and decisions especially in matters of the heart.